8. Hot Butter and Toxic Narcissism

Bonnie is angry that Adam has stopped listening to her, and turns to her "friend" therapist Trevor for help; she later finds out something about Trevor's own unhappy life, and is sympathetic when Adam reveals why he's so preoccupied. Christy has a meet-cute with a guy whose parents own a car she backed into, after she does the right thing and notifies them. Later, the women gather at Jill's to watch Footloose. Title meaning: A topping on the mashed potatoes that Bonnie threw at Adam in anger and an insult hurled at Trevor by his wife during an argument that Bonnie overhears.